We Don't WANT to be
Different (do we?)
by
Major Willis Howell
Major Willis Howell is President and Principal
of Evangeline Booth College in Atlanta, Georgia. In this
article he encourages Salvationists to remain true to who we
are and not seek to be like everyone else.
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Every parent of
a teenager has heard words to this effect:
“…but Tommy has
one…!
“Karen’s
parents let her do it. Why can’t I?”
“Alice and Bill
get to go. I’ll be the only one left out!”
“Why can’t I
buy it? Everyone else has..!”
After a deep
sigh (and briefly wondering if science could develop a way for
birth control to somehow be retroactive), the weary parent
does their best to explain to the emotionally fraying kid in
front of them:
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It doesn’t
matter what Tommy has.
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Karen’s
parents aren’t your parents.
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Alice and
Bill may not be the best role models.
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You and your
spouse are not responsible for how everyone else spends
their money.
Let me tell you
from personal experience, the odds of coming through one of
these “discussions” with your sanity intact, are right up
there with successfully mixing nitro glycerin in your
blender. In both cases – trying to “reason” with a
hormone-crazed teenager, and do-it-yourself nitro mixing –
you’re dealing with highly volatile and unstable components
that can explode without warning. In fact, it’s practically
one of life’s unwritten truths that any parent/teen set-to
that bears even a slight resemblance to what’s described above
will be followed by assorted acts of door slamming, sullen
expressions, deafening silence, and no end of eye-rolling.
And that’s just from the parents!
The message
every teen-pressured parent wants to get across, however, is
simply this: “Our family isn’t like everyone else’s family.
Our standards, our expectations, our values are different.
Others can do what they choose, but this is the way
we do family.”
God knows what
it’s like to be on the receiving end of tantrums. Throughout
millennia, His children have thrown all kinds of fits in His
direction as they’ve repeatedly rejected His plans and
insisted on doing things their way.
For example, do
you remember the little falling-out between God and His chosen
people in 1 Samuel 8?
It’s probably
best to give something of the background that leads up to the
event. To do that, though, we have to go all the way back to
when God singled out the Jews in the first place, and skim our
way forward through some of the events and occurrences that
helped to shape their identity as a people.
Now from the
very beginning, when He first established His covenant with
Abraham, the father of the Jewish people, God clearly intended
that His “chosen people” would be special – different. The
King James translation even goes so far as to use the word
“peculiar” – unlike everyone else. Over time, Abraham’s
descendants came to learn that these peculiarities would
influence practically every aspect of their lives, including:
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their worship
of one God (as opposed to the numerous gods other nations
worshiped),
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their laws,
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their diet,
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their dress,
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their
hygiene,
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their
relationships,
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their work
habits,
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the way they
fought wars…
In short,
everything about them was to be distinct. Their day-to-day
rhythms and routines were to be completely dissimilar to those
of the people around them. In fact, God wanted Israel to be
so utterly unique that all other nations would figuratively
stand around scratching their heads in wonder and amazement at
the success of the Jewish people, and come to one unmistakable
conclusion: it had to be a God-thing.
For the Jews,
this God-planned “differentness” led them into amazing
blessing and unimagined hardship. It included centuries of
slavery in Egypt, and an astonishingly miraculous release from
that slavery. This was quickly followed by forty years of
running laps in the wilderness, which finally led them to the
successful conquest of the Promised Land. But over all that
time, slowly – often painfully – the Jewish people learned how
well God cared for, protected, and provided for their needs
because of their distinctness. At every point, God was
trying to get across the idea that He wanted to leverage their
peculiarity in front of the whole world in ways that would
lead to their blessing and His glory.
So now we’re at
the point of our 1 Samuel episode. It’s now been more than
1,000 years since God and Abraham first kicked this whole
thing off, and nearly 300 years after first arriving in the
Promised Land. God’s hand picked children are now
well-settled into Canaan.
At this time,
Israel is still a theocracy. That is, God, by way of
various prophets and judges, is calling the shots. It’s the
system He put in place and the arrangement the Jews had lived
by – and prospered by – since right after their release from
Egyptian slavery. Each time they collectively rebelled and
bucked against God’s plan brought some level of suffering and
consequence. But when His design was willingly and
whole-heartedly embraced, it worked amazingly well for them
(imagine that)!
During the days
of the prophet-judge Samuel, a sort of rumble could be heard.
A growing discontent was spreading in the hearts and minds of
the Israelites. Little by little, God’s people – the very
ones He had chosen to be unique among all other nations –
wanted to look and behave more like the nations around them.
Why? Had they
observed some more successful “model?” Were the countries
around them somehow more prosperous? Were others’ standards
of living better? Was there some desired result or outcome
other nations were receiving that Israel wasn’t? Sure, there
had been some pretty serious problems with Samuel’s sons and
all, but was that sufficient reason to throw out the whole
system after it had worked for them for so long? I don’t
know….
I wonder if
it’s possible that over the years they had simply gotten tired
of being labeled as “strange,” or “oddball”. Do you think
that perhaps some had had all they could stand of explaining
to questioners – those from surrounding kingdoms or people
they traded with – that their lives and behavior were guided
by the terms of a covenant (“You see God spoke to this guy
Abraham, like centuries ago, and they agreed on a bunch of
stuff… I mean, dude, that’s so irrelevant to our lives now,
right?”). Maybe their frustration with having to dress
and live a certain way, and hold to certain practices and
values had built up to a point that finally took them over the
top.
Whatever it
was, it all came to a full boil, here in 1 Samuel 8. God’s
children collectively stomped their feet, threw their toys,
slammed their bedroom doors, and pitched a hot, blue fit.
“That’s it – we’re done! Give us the
same kind of king every other nation has! We’re tired of
being different. We’ve had enough of being ‘unique.’ No more
standing out. Just let us blend in and be like everyone
else.”
God gave in.
He let Israel have exactly what they asked for. They got a
king, and looked more like all the other nations around them.
But it sure didn’t lead to what anyone would call a
“happily-ever-after” kind of ending. You see, their lives –
and their nation – were forever changed. Their insistence on
swapping out God’s original game plan opened the door to what
would eventually lead to a divided kingdom, some truly
disastrous kings, and greater distance from God.
Here’s a
question… Do you see any parallel at all between this story
and our present-day Army? If so, then is there some “moral of
the story,” or word of caution that we would do well to pay
attention to?
Let’s look a
little closer and ask a few more questions…
Do you think
there’s a chance that God, as He did with the Jewish people…
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…has called
out and raised up the Army to be somewhat separate from the
rest of the church pack?
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…designed our
rhythms and routines to be, well, “unconventional” by
comparison to other parts of the Church body?
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…intended
that we would stand out as unique and distinct for His
purposes?
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…brought us
through various specific experiences and circumstances, to
intentionally shape our identity?
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…wants to
leverage our peculiarity in ways intended to honor
Him and advance His Kingdom?
If that’s the
case, then perhaps He also led our founders and early
day leaders to develop and embrace such “peculiar” Army
elements as:
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our free,
non-liturgical worship style,
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or the kind
of people we intentionally sought out (the marginalized, the
cast-off, those who were in some way broken, ignored,
despised, or who would fit into no other church system),
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or the
uncompromising standards we volunteered to live by (a
binding covenant that outlined our values and actions, and
touches on most every part of our lives )?
In short, is it
just possible that the Army was, and still
is:
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called by God
to be noticeably – maybe even radically –
different?
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designed
as a one-of-a-kind shape that fits perfectly into a specific
place in the mosaic of God’s overall plan and purpose?
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unique to the
point that when people examine our “success” as a Movement,
they scratch their heads in wonder and amazement and come to
the unmistakable conclusion: it’s got to be a God-thing.
Please
understand… By suggesting that God has called us to be
“different,” I don’t mean to imply that the Army is “elite,”
“exclusive,” or “better than” anyone else. I’m just putting
forward the idea that perhaps the Army is, in
fact, planned by God to be who we are and
how we are: a distinctive, uncommon, “horse of another
color,” out-of-the-ordinary Movement.
Now if you
think this just might be true, then we should be aware of
another Samuel-like parallel.
As it was in
Samuel’s day, there is a growing rumble of dissatisfaction in
some Army circles. A subtle shift seems to be taking place.
In a way rather reminiscent of the Israelites’
“give-us-a-king” cry of 1Samuel, some Salvationists want to
cast off what makes us distinct in order to adopt more of the
style, methods, and “look” of the churches around them.
For some, their
concerns center on the uniform and our military trappings.
Others focus on brass bands and music styles. Fine. While I
have some level of interest in those debates, they are not
exactly issues that keep me awake at night. What I do find
highly disturbing, however, is the strengthening push – here
in the West, anyway – for us to become more of a
“middle-class,” suburban church. If some had their way, they
would ditch the urban Army model where we intentionally go out
searching for and bringing in those who have been written off
by other churches. Instead, they would have us settle into
well-placed bedroom communities where we could turn our
attention on the comfort and care of folks who “look like us.”
Tell me…where is it written that we are called to be more
concerned about those we’ve already got, than we are those who
are still missing and in danger? (For Jesus’ answer to this
question, check out Luke 15:3-7)
Of even greater
concern, to my thinking, are the increasing demands that we
relax our standards on such Army distinctives as holy living
and covenant-based behavior. You’re probably aware that there
are some in our ranks who think the existing standards of
soldiership are too high, and that we’re asking too much of
people. (“You see, this binding promise thingy sometimes
kinda gets in the way of today’s lifestyle options. It like
talks about what I will do and what I
won’t do...what’s up with that? I mean, dude, there’s
like w-a-y too much hardcore stuff in there. It’s so unlike
what other churches have for their membership standards these
days. C’mon, let’s get real… If you want people to join, you
gotta lower the bar to where people can reach it”).
This is all
coming to a head. For whatever the specific mix of reasons,
more and more of God’s soldiers are stomping their feet,
throwing their toys, slamming their bedroom doors and pitching
a fit. They want the Army – their church – to
blend in and look like everyone else!
Evidently, this
isn’t a new phenomenon. The
“let’s-look-more-like-other-churches” folk have been with us
from our founding right up through today. Why else would we
hear this constant counsel echo over the years?
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“I do not
want another ecclesiastical corps
[that is, corps that look like and act like the bulk of
other churches out there – W]
cumbering the earth. When The Salvation Army ceases to be a
militant body of red-hot men and women whose supreme
business is the saving of souls, I hope it will vanish
utterly.”
– William
Booth
– Commissioner
Florence Booth
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“Today
many Officers make no secret of the fact that they measure
their privilege by the numerical strength they find on their
rolls, and not by the opportunity to establish true religion
among those at present unsaved and uninterested. When
Officers assess their opportunity in this manner, they show
a lack of the aggressive spirit; they show the harking back
to “church and chapel” ways which I have already deplored.
“Some Officers
allow their influence to be almost entirely confined within
the bounds of their corps. Their power is wholly dedicated to
maintain existing forces. Do not sink your Salvationism in
pastoral duties, fussing the soldiers, visiting sympathizers
who are willing to receive you because of the work of your
predecessors. Many good people will be glad to keep you at
their beck and call doing a little charitable work for them.
Officers who are content to do this, neglect aggressive work;
brothels and public-houses do not know of their existence; the
Devil’s victims, sinking in the mire, hear nothing of that
radiant hope in the Lord, hope for the worst, which Officers
were raised to carry, like a glowing torch, into the darkest
places. Such Officers are helping to snap rather than to add
a link to the precious chain of love which binds the heart of
the neediest to the Army.
“They are
satisfied if the corps has an increased congregation of
well-dressed people who like to listen to the Songsters. They
are elated because the Army has a good name among the
respectable in the town, proud that it has a fine building.
If this is included in the printed list of places of worship,
which no drunkard, prostitute, or other lost soul ever
regards, they think the Army has greatly benefitted.
“My comrades,
if one of you is neglecting, and intends to neglect,
aggressive warfare against the Devil’s forces and clear
witnessing for Christ amongst the ungodly; if one of you feels
unable to seek the despairing, the lost, and the callous, who
hide themselves in the haunts of sin and will not seek us, I
beg that one to resign. Many of the churches will receive you
gladly. None who has cast off the bridal garment of
Salvationism should remain amongst us.”
– Commissioner Florence Booth
a smaller
number of penitents and a decline in the fighting spirit of
the soldiers!"
– General
Edward J. Higgins
– General
Albert Orsborne
– Major Ted
Palmer
The point to
the whole thing takes us back to both the parent at the
beginning of this writing, and God’s choosing of Abraham and
his descendants: It doesn’t matter what others do. God has
made us who and what we are for His purpose. Sure, there are
problems and issues that need addressing. No question. But
does the way to accomplish that really call for scrapping the
entire organizational and missional identity of our Movement?
See, I believe
this is a time for us to run more toward our heritage
than away from it. I believe the Army at its
results-producing best when we accept, totally embrace, and
operate from the full strength of our distinct God-given
identity. But when we water down our methods, compromise our
standards, or try to pass ourselves off as something we’re
not, the Army, those we’re trying to reach, and the Kingdom
all suffer.
And to my
Salvationist brothers and sisters who may be trying to move
the Army in directions of liturgy, greater formality, a more
“stained glass” setting, communion, more relaxed standards, or
a mega-church mentality, may I lovingly set this idea on the
table…? Could it be that the Army just might not be right for
you? Please understand I’m not criticizing or condemning! I
know full well that we aren’t everyone’s cup of tea. Truth is
we’re really more of an “acquired taste.” I’m simply
suggesting that perhaps we work together to help find you some
church or ministry – complete with the elements, practices,
“look,” and “feel” you’re wanting – where you’ll be more
comfortable, and not as frustrated.
The Army’s
Orders and Regulations – which are published to cover an
incredibly wide range of topics – are a far under-used tool
when it comes to explaining the standards and expectations of
soldiership. But in the most current O&R for Soldiers,
the following information is provided in the very first
chapter (the emphasis and underlining is mine):
From O&R for SOLDIERS: CHAPTER
1 Some Features of Salvationism
Section 2. The Soldier's
Covenant
1. Though the Army's soldiers (members) are drawn from
various cultures, traditions and races, as well as from all
levels of society, they have all signed their name to the
document called 'The Soldier's Covenant' (previously known as
the Articles of War). In 1890 it was stated as a regulation
that 'every salvation soldier must consider, accept and then
sign this document'. This requirement is in force today, as
are its reasons, which are reproduced here.
(a) That he may understand beforehand the doctrines,
principles and practices to which he will have to conform.
(b) Thinking and praying over this covenant will help him to
find out whether he really has the faith and spirit of a
salvation soldier or not.
(c) The pledge involved in signing the covenant will help
him to be faithful to the Army in the future.
(d) The covenant may prevent many joining who are not in
heart and head with us, and who consequently would be likely
afterwards to create dissatisfaction and division.
Said another
way, every potential soldier owes it to themselves and the
Army to know what they’re signing up for; what they’re
agreeing to. This point is only made stronger by the fact
that we’re asking them sign and enter into a binding
covenant with God. So before signing, some
questions have to be asked, considered, and settled: “Do I
have what it takes? Do I really believe what this says
I believe? Am I both able and willing to fulfill what
is expected of me? Do I understand, and embrace the Army’s
mission and methods?”
If for any
reason(s) they find themselves tensing up or pushing back
against any of the terms and conditions, they simply shouldn’t
sign. Otherwise, they run the risk of
create[ing] dissatisfaction and division,
mentioned in the O&R above or, worse still, breaking a
covenant with God.
Can you imagine
what our Army would look like if every
Salvationist actively lived out the covenant we’ve signed?
Can you picture the unbelievable difference it would make if
each of us actually ordered our lives and priorities around
the behaviors and passions we’ve put our signatures to? Can
your mind grab hold of what God might do with an Army like
that?
Understand we
still wouldn’t be a perfect Army. And we certainly wouldn’t
look like any flavor-of-the-month church model. But I’m
convinced that an Army of full strength, covenant-living
soldiers like that who completely accept their God-assigned,
unique role and specific mission would do nothing less than
change the world!
Who’s with me…?
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